CELEBRATING AN AMAZING LIFE WITH FRIENDS!

CELEBRATING AN AMAZING LIFE WITH FRIENDS!

If my life is amazing, it is so because of friends – and family, of course! Because of so many of you who are reading this column! A number of friends were in town this week and I was delighted to mark my birthday week with 3 dinners and one lunch! Family arrives next week and my sister will be there in just over a month so more time to celebrate.

Dinner at Taverna Agape on Monday, June 26 with Newt and Callista Gingrich –

Dinner Thursday, June 29, with Fr. Ryan Brady of Chicago at Pummarola –

Birthday dinner at La Vittoria with (across from me) Fr. Matt Berrios of St. Patrick’s in Rome, (next to me) Chris Lawton, a Paulist seminarian visiting and helping out at St. Pat’s and across from Chris, his brother Matt who flew in for a long holiday weekend! – (I posted Matt’s video earlier on FB)

I totally forgot to take photos (!) at lunch with my friend Michael Hesemann who gave me the beautiful flowers you see and a wonderful historical reproduction of a mosaic floor on a church in Jordan (Madaba Map. Art Destination Jordan (universes.art). He is a prolific author and noted Church historian.

I have been overwhelmed with perfume (Dior’s J’Adore) Champagne, flowers, Prosecco, the mosaic reproduction, a pencil holder for my desk, a scented candle and a lovely silver icon of Madonna and Child from my cleaning lady (Nelia has only been with me 3 weeks – a gift I gave myself for my birthday!) Can one ever have enough flowers, candles or  bubbly!

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I have this little sign in my home and I can’t help but think of the number of friends I have around the world when I look at it! My home has welcomed so many of those friends and, as I said, they are the people who make life amazing! I have 4 guest books that people have signed over the years – dinner guests and houseguests. Maybe some day I’ll treat myself to a re-reading of those entries!

This might be overlong for a personal post about a birthday but I truly have SO much to celebrate and be thankful for! Those who know me well, fully understand what I mean!

I wish each and every one of you just a portion of the wealth, the richness, I have in family and friends!

A SUNDAY SPECIAL…

A SUNDAY SPECIAL…

Maria Lina Martin and I were sitting outside St. Patrick’s church in Rome after the 10:30 Mass today and Callista Gingrich took this photo. I love it! Maria Lina will be 102 in October, and I am soon to be two decades behind her (my b’day is Thursday)! Our parish turned 100 in February – Maria Lina was a year older than the parish!

BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS CONTINUE!

BIRTHDAY BLESSINGS CONTINUE!

Dinner at La Vittoria with Fr. Joe Roesch and Fr. Ryan Brady and an American friend Olga who took the pictures but is not in them! Travels and previous commitments kept a number of invitees from attending but I have a lot of rainchecks to look forward to!

This photo is from several nights earlier – dinner at La Vittoria with my friend from Dusseldorf, Michael Hesemann.   I love chocolate and got a personalized Toblerone chocolate bar!

CONSISTORIES, CARDINALS AND COURTESY VISITS – …AND THEN THERE WAS A BIRTHDAY PARTY!

CONSISTORIES, CARDINALS AND COURTESY VISITS

It has really been an event-filled end of June here at the Vatican, as you probably know from EWTN’s television coverage, Facebook pages, etc.

On June 28 there was the consistory in which the Pope created 14 new cardinals, and that was followed by courtesy visits to the new Eminences who welcomed visitors in the Paul VI Hall and the Apostolic Palace.

That same day, Polish papal almoner Konrad Krajewski, one of the new cardinals, celebrated receiving the red hat by offering a dinner for several hundred poor in the Vatican cafeteria. Pope Francis surprised everyone by dropping in and he chatted with guests, joined the guests at table and interacted with children.

Friday, June 29, the solemnity of Sts. Peter and Paul, Apostles, patron saints of Rome, the Pope celebrated a mass in St. Peter’s Square during which there was the blessing of the palliums that are given on this day every year to the new metropolitan archbishops named since last June 29. The pallium indicates the archbishop’s authority and also his link to the See of Peter, to the Pope.

There was an interesting break with tradition at the June 29th Mass. For decades, palliums were placed on the shoulders of the new metropolitan archbishops by the Pope on this feast of Sts. Peter and Paul. In 2015 Francis changed the traditional ceremony, deciding that he would hand the palliums to the new archbishops in Rome but the public ceremony of placing the pallium on their shoulders would henceforth take place in their home dioceses with the nuncio bestowing the pallium. During Mass this year, Pope Francis did bless the palliums worn by metropolitan archbishops but, in a surprising departure, the palliums were handed in a box to the new metropolitans, not by the Pope but by a Vatican official.

Yesterday, Sunday, July 1 the Holy Father recited the noon Angelus with the 20,000 faithful in St. Peter’s Square. Technically, yesterday was the first day of a monthlong working vacation for the Holy Father. His only scheduled public appearances in July – at least for now – will be the Angelus. No weekly audiences will take place this month. However, the press office did publish his schedule today, which included some private audiences. Pope Francis has admitted he does not know how to take a real vacation and has said that work actually relaxes him.

…AND THEN THERE WAS A BIRTHDAY PARTY!

“Birthdays are good for you! Statistics show that the people who have the most live the longest!”

That little tidbit is printed on a magnet that is placed prominently on my fridge. I’ve also seen another version: “Birthdays are good for your health: the more you have, the longer you live.”

I’ve always loved birthdays and this year the celebrations were just phenomenal, beginning on Friday, the vigil of the big day, and ending last night with another amazing dinner.

Friday I met my good friend Marie for a prosecco on the terrace of the Paul VI Residence. This amazing hotel and terrace overlooks the left hand colonnade of St. Peter’s and all the adjacent buildings, the basilica, etc. Absolutely stunning! Marie works for Air Canada and gets to Rome fairly often, especially given her linguistic skills. We took photos of the view and the table being prepared for a luxurious al fresco dinner but not one of either of us! Dinner afterwards at La Vittoria.

Saturday, June 30 I had lunch with two terrific friends from Wisconsin, Bill and Vicki Thorn at the only place I celebrate a birthday lunch – La Vittoria. The owner Claudio and his wife Palmerina (whom many of you know) gave me a gorgeous orchid plant – Claudio said he personally chose it. I don’t think the photo does it justice.

Later, a drink at a café on Pza. Navona with Janet Morana, a mutual friend of ours, Geoffrey Strickland and Janet’s sister in law Teresa preceded dinner in a truly heavenly spot – I’ve written about it and posted photos – the Terrazza Borromini that overlooks Pza Navona. We were joined by U.S. Ambassador to the Holy See and my longtime friend, Callista Gingrich and by EWTN’s own (and my longtime friend!), Msgr. Anthony Figueiredo.

Superlative menu, spectacular views and, best of all, unbeatable and scintillating conversation! As you can see…

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By the way, the chef is my longtime friend Francesco Grasso, stolen away from La Scaletta over a year ago because of his culinary skills.

And the celebrations continued yesterday! Newt and Callista Gingrich and I met up at Mass last night and I was invited to join them and four friends from the States, whom I’ve also known for a few years, for drinks and dinner. We went to the Paul VI Residence for a prosecco and then to La Matriciana for dinner.

I was unable to copy the video link to this column but here’s a photo that Callista took when I was surprised with a chorus of Happy Birthday, obligingly sung by the waiters and any diners who wanted to join it.

It was late when I got back home but, as I often do after a particularly wonderful moment or event in my life, I like to find some quiet time to think about that moment or event or, in this case, the previous 48 hours.t was late when I got back home but, as I often do after a particularly wonderful moment or event in my life, I like to find some quiet time to think about that moment or event or, in this case, the previous 48 hours.

The richness of my life is indescribable. I looked at the past two days and was really overwhelmed– the friends and fun and laughter and joy and craziness and amazing food and wine just to celebrate a birthday. The sharing – sharing friends, sharing important moments and personal thoughts and feelings and stories, the things that are the essence of life.

And when I look back on so many decades that have been filled with the same richness – the richness of having been born into a wonderful, beautiful, loving, caring and sharing family. The richness of a life filled with family and friends but above all, a beautiful faith, the faith that is my beating heart, the center of my life. The richness of a life with amazing work experiences, enriching travels and so very many unique moments.

After faith, it’s all about people when you come right down to it. Our families gave us the foundation of our being, our personality, our character, but everyone else who enters our lives – for long periods, for short ones, perhaps just a few minutes – every single one of them will have given us something indelible.

And I felt that when I read the hundreds of emails and FB messages I received, reading many with tears in my eyes. Words of thanks, of blessings, of thanksgiving, of gratitude for the work I do, gratitude for the lives I am told I have touched and changed and helped. There were photos and flowers and balloons and songs and GIFs and beautiful words! Wow! Heartfelt thanks and prayers for each of you!

So how could my birthday have been anything less than phenomenal!