Finally, THE wedding!

As Lauren and Mark enjoy their honeymoon in Italy and look forward to Paris as well, I can relive part of their splendid October 15 wedding day with some of the photos I promised…..better later than never!

Mount Victoria is one of the loveliest estates I have ever seen – the historical main house, several other buildings such as the Lodge, the Game House, etc., acres and acres of sprawling lawns and forest as far as the eye can see – every acre seems spectacular.

As you will see, no detail was too small or too large to be overlooked, from providing limo bus transport from the church and hotels to the reception, a small army of golf carts to bring guests from their cars to the house, from the house to the tent for dinner and back to their cars after the reception. And candles and lights – and security – everywhere!

Pure magic!

The building to the right of the tent for 200 guests housed six bathrooms, complete with amenities.


Mount Victoria, the main house


The grounds –

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Oysters with our cocktails –


Baskets of Pashmina shawls for the women when the sunset and it was chilly –


The tent –


The dance floor – 10 piece band with 4 singers –


Tables –




Personalized menus –


Several shrub shaped like bunnies, Mark’s nickname for Lauren once upon a time…


The happy couple – as their Dads pay tributes –





Pope Francis paid a visit this morning to the Generalate of the Jesuits on Borgo Santo Spirito, just blocks from Vatican City, as the Order founded by St. Ignatius of Loyola meets in its 36th general Congregation. The Jesuits elected a new superior during this congregation, Father General Arturo Sosa.

The following report and photos are from the Congregation website:

There is a well-established tradition that on the occasion of a Jesuit General Congregation, the Holy Father meets with the delegates. Since most of the time this happens as an audience in the rooms of the Vatican, there is not a precedent for the pope himself choosing to meet the Jesuits as they are gathered in the General Congregation in the curia of the Society. So this Monday, 24 October, Pope Francis came discreetly to the curia and was greeted by Father General Arturo Sosa and the superior of the curia community, Father Joaquín Barrero.


These two accompanied him into the aula, and the Pope participated in morning prayer with the delegates. The theme of the prayer, the good shepherd, had been chosen for the occasion. The Ignatian tradition reflection made a reference to Fr. Franz van de Lugt, who made himself pastor of his own in Homs, Syria, until he was killed by the insanity of war. The members of the Congregation prayed for Pope Francis, as he often requests of all those he meets.

Pope Francis came to the General Congregation with a message. He gave an encouraging speech that set a direction. The speech gave a good idea of the manner in which he is coming to see the service of the Church and of the world that the Society of Jesus can offer, a relevant way connected to his own ministry. His whole intervention was characterized by an openness to what lies ahead, a call to go further, a support for caminar, the way of journeying that allows Jesuits to go toward others and to walk with them on their own journey.


To start out, quoting Saint Ignatius, the Pope recalled that a Jesuit is called to converse and thereby to bring life to birth “in every part of the world where a greater service of God and help for souls is expected.” Precisely for this reason, the Jesuits must go forward, taking advantage of the situations in which they find themselves, always to serve more and better. This implies a way of doing things that aims for harmony in the contexts of tension that are normal in a world with diverse persons and missions. The Pope mentioned explicitly the tensions between contemplation and action, between faith and justice, between charism and institution, between community and mission.

The Holy Father detailed three areas of the Society’s path; we will come back to each of them in the coming days.


The first is to “ask insistently for consolation.” It is proper to the Society to know how to console, to bring consolation and real joy; the Jesuits must put themselves at the service of joy, for the Good News cannot be announced in sadness.

Next, Francis invites us to “allow ourselves to be moved by the Lord on the cross.” The Jesuits must get close to the vast majority of men and women who suffer, and, in this context, it must offer various services of mercy in various forms. The Pope underlined certain elements that he had already had occasion to present throughout the jubilee year of mercy. We who have been touched by mercy must feel ourselves sent to present this same mercy and, he added, in an effective way.

Finally, the Holy Father invites us to go forward under the influence of the “good spirit.” This implies always discerning, which is more than simply reflecting, how to act in communion with the Church. The Jesuits must be not “clerical” but “ecclesial.” They are “men for others” who live in the midst of all peoples, trying to touch the heart of each person, contributing in this way to establishing a Church in which all have their place, in which the Gospel is inculturated, and in which each culture is evangelized.


These three last words of the Pope’s speech are graces for which each Jesuit and the whole Society must always ask: consolation, compassion, and discernment.

Here is a link to Pope Francis’ talk to the Jesuits this morning: